When God was at his drafting table deciding how the universe would work, it was pretty clever of him to make children start out small and grow up to be larger. I can only imagine the challenges to a parent if children were born huge and then grew down to be small.
I mean, can you imagine trying to change an NFL lineman’s diaper if he didn’t want it changed? Or better yet, trying to enforce a “time out” on him? You’d be lucky to escape with all your limbs intact. And I imagine if that same NFL lineman wanted you to play dolls with him? You would not have much choice in the matter. Either play with dolls or have your shoulders dislocated and your ears ripped off.
And if children were big and we were small, it would be us adults who needed to be strapped into a car seat, and have to sit on a stack of telephone books during the family Christmas dinner, not the child.
But fortunately for us, children come in a small, convenient size, which makes them easier to manage. So when you tell a child “come here . . . come here . . . come here . . . come here . . . come here,” you can then provide them with some assistance in “coming here,” when words don’t seem to be working.
Due to their miniature size, a parent can assist children with lots of things like, “come here,” “stay there,” “sit down,” “stand up,” “stop hitting grandma with a wiffle ball bat,” and many other simple tasks that we need them to perform.
You can even assist them in cleaning their entire messy room by employing what I call “the chop stick method.” This method is where (after repeatedly telling them to clean their room, and the child repeatedly refusing) you grasp them by their little arms, and use them like chop sticks to pick up objects and put them away. I’m not sure that this method actually helps the child become any more obedient, but it seems to give the parent some satisfaction.
However, if you choose to use “the chop stick method,” you need to be careful that older siblings don’t see, and end up performing a perversion of it known as “Why are you hitting yourself? Stop hitting yourself.”
I guess if I had any complaints about the whole kids being small thing, it would be that I think they should remain small until they move out. My daughter Hannah is 17 now, and seems to be getting stronger and stronger. The age of 17 is a time in the raising of some children where it would be nice if they were still small . . . . really small . . . . . I’m talking ‘put them in a coffee can with holes poked in the lid’ small.
I laughed at this : So when you tell a child “come here . . . come here . . . come here . . . come here . . . come here,” you can then provide them with some assistance in “coming here,” when words don’t seem to be working. LOL
I seem to be doing that often with naughty kids wandering around.
Time flies so fast….I wish we could have longer lives.
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I so agree! There is just not enough time! There is so much I still want to do with my girls but they are growing up too fast.
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LAUGH OUT LOUD FUNNY. Haha assistance in coming here and chop-stick method. Which I have done as well. 😂
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I should have tried chops-sticking a whole kitchen remodel just to see if I could do it.
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Haha
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My favorite lines are the part with the whiffle ball bat and the idea of putting kids in cans light bigs we catch. Funny!
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It would be so easy if we could just stick them in a can with a handful of weeds to eat and a stick to sit on.
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Bwahahahaha! Hilarious! “Stop hitting grandma with the wiffle ball bat”. Too good.
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She was too feeble to defend herself.
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Silly grandmas… 😉
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I sense some 17 year old daughter angst – just remember, even when they were little they weren’t always cute (ok, maybe they were, but you had to pretend that they weren’t – NOW you don’t have to pretend they are cute if they are not). I think that is a bonus, not really sure now.
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They were cute up until they were throwing a high volume, body thrashing tantrum in the floor.
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Yep, that is true.
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I really like your ‘the chop stick method’ theory. Got to start implementing it while my baby is still a small, convenient size to manage 🙂
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You could probably wen bake a cake that way!
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